Rhetorical or rhetoric?

If he loves you then why isn't he by your side? If he cares about you then why won't he get over himself and.ask you how you're doing? If this is his idea of grace then why do you still feel so bad? What would you have even done with him in a relationship? Can't he just leave you alone and realize you've already moved on? What does he even bring to the table except pretty words about ugly feelings? Is he ever positive? Didn't he hear you when you said you never wanted this? Can't he see it now, or is he blind and deaf? Can you even deal with someone so emotional? He can't even watch his weight or move out of his house, what kind of man is this?